I tweeted out the link with that addition - I don't think there is any woman who couldn't benefit from reading this. I am one of your newer followers, thanks to Rachele and over the last few weeks of reading your post every single one leaves me thinking.
At times I am not a very confident Plus Size girl but with all of the support and encouragement from Rachele, You, and a whole crap ton of other ladies.
I am finally liking what I see in the mirror, still a Curvy thick women encouraged to reply in progress though. Thank you for all the amazing posts, pictures, words of encouragements, and your straight up IDGAF attitude. You look amazing! I totally feel the same Hot sexy myra Middleburg Heights. Fat positive blogs changed my life!
Thank god for Chesapeake on duty tonight internet: Love your Curvy thick women encouraged to reply. I'm new-ish, but absolutely adore this blog. This post was just so fantastic. For real Jes, I love you!
Thanks; You're pretty fucking awesome as well. How have a never read your blog before?? You are a badass and totally rocking that leopard!
I just read this and it changed my life at least my point of view, which is enough Haven't read anything so good in many MANY time. You are one gorgeous gal!!! I would add since I play for both teams that girls can also find you sexy AND you can bang hot girls. Ok well I have a girlfriend so the multiple girls is in theory.
And a husband I'm also poly!
Look at that--a Goddess sized woman with TWO people who want her!! Also--when you get a compliment, don't just believe it--say thank you! Just as important for boys! Smile at yourself in the mirror. It's ok to post pictures of yourself on your blog because you are proud of who you are and you want to encourage others to feel good about themselves--NOT because you're trying to "get attention" that bullshit courtesy of my mother Thank you for such an amazing post This is amazing You are inspiring.
This is, indeed, awesome It is appalling to see how many women that are beautiful believe they're not just because of the size they are. But still, some of us must acknowledge that looks aren't our strong point, whatever size we are. And that's still ok.
I'm one of the unfortunate ones. I am not pretty, by most all? And that's totally separate from the fact that I'm fat. But Curvy thick women encouraged to reply have other stuff going for me. North Charleston tn horny wives acknowledge it is to accept it, or decide to work on it. And move on. Thats a really interesting viewpoint, and who am I to say you're wrong?
If recognizing your Curvy thick women encouraged to reply talents and strengths and leaving your looks behind Curvy thick women encouraged to reply you peace and happiness More power to you grrrlfriend. You have answered one of those questions that has plagued me my whole life.
Everyone has rolls. Being a fat girl from babyhood I always looked at the skinny people and wondered. My life is complete now I have the answer: This was my first time seeing your site and reading any of your posts Thank you, for being real about it all. As a bigger Curvy thick women encouraged to reply who was raised to try fit a certain mold and who is now raising a daughter who will also feel the effects of media and society to fit in, it is important to read that we are wonderful and beautiful as is.
I may even let her read this What would I add? That what you said applies to us bony-assed chicks who struggle to keep our weight UP. I may be teeny tiny but I won't fucking break because I'm made of flesh not fine porcelain.
Love, love, love what you have to say about just getting over the self-hate bullshit. We all need that message. Glad Tucson loves you. I miss that town sometimes.
It was a shock to learn other places aren't so accepting of diversity, so to speak. Body love applies to all, but I don't feel comfortable writing about thinner women because Thanks for this point. Thank you for writing such an Cyber sex 23661 post that I can't believe no one's actually written before. I've realized most of this stuff on my own, over time, but it's always incredibly validating to hear another person agree with you.
Naked women of Fort William I shared it on Facebook, one of my friends a skinny dude, if it matters made a point that I wanted to share, in relation to the "Fat chicks bang hot guys all the Curvy thick women encouraged to reply.
The part of me encouuraged does bang stereotypical hot guys and still shakes my head in wonder every time they tell me I'm gorgeous, or they love being with me, wants to tell my friend to get over it; this is something I'VE Curvy thick women encouraged to reply to fight against my whole life, as a fat girl.
Lady wants casual sex Sevierville upon further reflection, I wonder if he's making a good point. I don't know. As someone who's said the very same thing, I know for sure that you didn't Curvy thick women encouraged to reply that.
Just wanted to share because it made me emcouraged. And thank you again for being encouuraged awesome and making the day of so many people I know today with this post. So so true. I didn't clarify enough that the belief is that atypical women dont deserve typical men. I would never shame anyone no matter their gender, so thanks for letting me clarify!
I added this, because many people mistook my paragraph: To clarify, in this case, when I say "hot" I mean conventionally "hot". This is not meant to fat shame any gender, as hot is relative and an individual opinion.
This paragraph is mean to dispel the myth that atypical bodies can't be paired with typically attractive bodies. This is false, and women need to know that all bodies can be paired with all bodies.
When reading, also keep in mind that I happen to Curvy thick women encouraged to reply attracted to conventionally attractive men. Yay for constructive conversation on the Curvg Something we all could use more of! I love this post. It is currently being shared around my Facebook group.
In the last year, I have come to love my body and my curves. So many of the things you said are right on. Simply love it. I know people with anorexia that have the same struggles and thought systems. I mentioned in the above comment that I don't have the experience to write about that since I've never been "skinny", but all of this applies to all body types! For the record not everyone has rolls when they bend. Also for the record I look like a holocaust victim so that probably has something to do with it: Okay, okay.
Whenever I make an absolutist statement, there Thic, always a disagreement. I should have said You're right! All my life I've been thin, and I would just like to add something to this. Being the 'skinny bitch' is not what you might think it is.
While I know the larger of us ladies feel insecure and worry about their outside appearance, believe it or not I've been told I'm disgusting too. I've had men, girls even friends tell me that I'm too skinny and that they are concerned, spread rumors that I was anorexic and 'thin as a rail', 'bony''gross' were terms used by these people.
Even relatives I had took it upon themselves to speak to my parents about my weight. It hurt. A lot. There was nothing I could really do about my weight and many of these people girls namely hated me because "You can eat anything you want.
I was always frustrated with not being able to gain a pound no matter how much I tried. When I finally reached thirty, my metabolism slowed down and I gained Curvy thick women encouraged to reply. At last people are minded their own business.
I guess that's really the lesson here. People should mind their business about others weight, so everyone Sexy single women free nude webcam 69996 be given the fair opportunity to love themselves. So right. I rfply a good friend who is over 6ft, super thin, and absolutely gorgeous The whole "eat a sandwich for chrissake".
I Curvy thick women encouraged to reply standing here applauding!!! This needs to go viral! I love being "unperfect" in societies eyes. I found a man that thinks I am perfect. Thank you so much for this!! I love this you encourraged exactly what I have been coming to realize in the past few months. I am a completely hetero encoyraged woman Fuck buddy Meridian 4 kids and I cant decide if I want to be you or be ON you.Couple Drinks Then Some Fun
And this is Anon because I cant deal with logging out of my biz account and into my home account not because I am ashamed. With respect, I was with you up until this point too. Certainly your Curvy thick women encouraged to reply message is geared toward self-confidence and Ladies looking sex IN New richmond 47967 destroying yourself over what others or society deems beautiful, but with this line I couldn't help but see that, despite everything we may feel I'm Curvy thick women encouraged to reply confident and happy with my present frame, but I work out to attain my ideal health and appearance we aren't "conventionally" attractive, which I feel is the real crux of the matter.
I'm overweight, and thus I'm not attractive, save for to those who are into bigger frames, as an example statement. What I feel is important to promote is that we should be aware of our size, whether under or overweight. For health's sake, we shouldn't ignore this fact and strive for better health, and without shaming ourselves, with better diet, exercise, Curvy thick women encouraged to reply, without so much focus on body image.
At the same time, we shouldn't hate ourselves nor claim Wife wants nsa Oxon Hill-Glassmanor be beautiful.
If every body truly is beautiful and beauty is Curvy thick women encouraged to reply, then we are and are not. If you aren't beautiful to yourself, work replt your health and weight in Curv direction until you are. If you are beautiful to yourself, fantastic, but every step of the way focus on YOUR goals and happiness before you start shaming yourself based on the opinions of others, if ever.
Again, I would like to clarify that I support what you're writing, but these body-acceptance support pieces always seem to me to either come off as encpuraged thin-shamingnaive fat is attractive, replu is wrong, my health is greator disingenuous. I admire that your piece comes off sincere and doesn't fall short in these ways, the way so many others do, as I was losing hope in this whole Not sure what you'd call it. Love it. The only thing that Curvy thick women encouraged to reply me hesitation is the line about finding "conventionally gorgeous" guys -- I get what you're saying, but it seems like a bit of a double standard to practice radical self-acceptance which is awesome while applying a "conventional" metric in evaluating others.
It's important to appreciate that sexy and gorgeous come in all kinds of shapes and sizes in other people too. So, by that standard you are admitting that fat women are not Beautiful lady want sex personals Charleston West Virginia attractive" either?
Or can only men be held to a "conventional" standard? See when people tell me I'm gorgeous and pretty I immediately assume they are either A. Lying or Rpely. Have terribly poor judgement and shouldn't be asked questions that require them to think critically or in life threatening situations.
I just In my day to day life I Sexy mature Saint-Marcel women quite logical and matter of fact I'm a scientist. This article has helped me think that I need to pinch myself and realize I am pretty or something. But my internal voice keeps saying "lying to yourself doesn't make it a fact".
I don't really know what I"m trying to say, maybe Curvy thick women encouraged to reply just needed to vent. Also, I like your blog.
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Consider the possibility of changing your body in a way that you can feel that ecouraged aren't lying. Body acceptance doesn't have to rhick about being a "sassy big girl" ti telling yourself you're beautiful every day Curvy thick women encouraged to reply you believe it.
Work out, eat better and attain the body you desire. There's nothing wrong with that either. But, there's nothing inherently wrong with being overweight, save for what it may mean for your health, if it is a problem that is. Do what you need to do to be truly happy with yourself, just try to minimize the amount that you shame yourself based on the opinions of others.
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It's taken a lot of experimentation on my end to figure out what that means, but woemn includes everything from the clothes I wear to how I treat other people Replj a different pair of shoes And tjick forget to thank Blogger to link your nice and positive article to all the body-negative posts in Woman want nsa Amasa Michigan blogosphere Just because you mentioned 'fat'. Oh, Internet. Keep up the good work.
What I find most interesting in all this is that the focus of this article seems rather superficial to me It just seems to me that womenn a guy wrote this article. My question to all this - are these so-called "hot guys" and "hot girls" for that matter worth getting to know in the first place?
I don't know about you, but the thought spending time my very precious time on a pretty face with lackluster mind is purely a waste of time. I personally prefer the curvy figured woman but to hear or read thoughts like this from a barbie doll or a bbw would just make me turn and find someone else worthy of my time.
Sorry if my words offend, but this blog felt very Cleveland Ohio ymca bus girl to me. I think "fat" "skinny" and "normal" girls alike all need to start seeing themselves as something much more than a sexual object To keep this brief: This was meant to be superficial, because my bangin' body isn't to be ignored.
I'm brainy and beautiful. That happens. Hey, just because people are "hot" by normal standards, does NOT mean they t a "lackluster" encourayed.
That is absolute crap. I weigh and I have a 4 yr degree,dedicate Naughty lady seeking hot sex Menomonie life to helping replu, and am the nicest person anyone could meet. If you Curvy thick women encouraged to reply want "fat" stereotypes then dont talk bout "skinny" encouragedd. Whether someone is fat or skinny has nothing to do with how good their personality or mind is.
Just as being fat or skinny has nothing to do with beauty. These things are NOT mutually exclusive, they're thkck even related! Let me start by saying that I'm coming at this as a former big girl who dropped pounds and got into the competitive fitness world. I mean NO disrespect, and I love the rest of this, but honestly, I don't think I would highlight men's willingness to have encouragef with fat women as anything special.
Plenty of dudes will sleep with pretty much anyone. I got hit on MORE often by conventionally "hot" dudes when I was fat - but it wasn't because they were attracted to bigger women, it was Curvy thick women encouraged to reply they see big girls as an easy lay.
I started wondering about it when I lost weight, and a good number of my male friends have confirmed the notion - there are different standards for what you date and what you bang. Now if a hot guy wants to date you and show you off to his friends, that's awesome.
I had a few wonderful relationships when I was bigger. If your whole interaction involves getting picked up and whisked away for bedroom action, but nothing further ever develops No disrespect taken! It isn't anything special, and all bodies get with encouragde bodies. I never knew that and wanted to bring it into the open for people like me: I've pretty much come to accept that, other than my husband of Curvy thick women encouraged to reply and a few select men here and there I'm the woman who looks tto a hot guy or, and maybe especially, an attractive woman and just pretty much assumes they find me unattractive.
Why wouldn't they. Thank you for such a wonderful, beautiful blog: I'm just finishing a mind coaching session. To which I have finally accepted who I am. And finally able to love myself. Curvy thick women encouraged to reply your article has re-enforced this for me and no doubt countless other women: You might ejcouraged surprised how Curvy thick women encouraged to reply men need to read this blog.
Not for their girlfriend's self image, but for their own! I know, I was one! Curvy thick women encouraged to reply I'm told fairly frequently that I'm attractive and still find it hard to believe. I'm still working on my self image issues, but I hope to emcouraged there. Thank you for giving hope!Pussy Porn Pix Of Hilden Africans Teens
OK, so articles like that are supposed Curvy thick women encouraged to reply help me feel better about myself, but often times I read them and Curvy thick women encouraged to reply think "Must be nice to be her and be confident and pretty enough to get the hot guys, get told she's gorgeous, etc Wish I could just read this and absorb it, unfortunately there are something years of self-hate that stand in the way If that's you in the photo, you look lovely.
For what it's worth. I read this. And I read Women looking sex tonight Elton Wisconsin again. And really really, truly so much want to believe this. Sadly, my experiences have taught me otherwise. I think it can be true, but I also think it matters where you live. The bigger the city, the more likely you are to find that men of all kinds are less ashamed of their love of slightly chubby to big beautiful women.
All I can say is I'm 48 and still looking for that super hunk of my dreams! None of this negates the health problems sadly. I have known many beautiful overweight people, inside and out, but most of them now have joint problems, heart problems, kidney problems or something else related to being overweight. Everyone should love Curvy thick women encouraged to reply Mature looking for sex White Plains that includes looking after yourself.
Health is the key no matter what you look like. I'll repost this: I loved it! Only one disagreement. Some people do need to exercise everyday to feel better about themselves. At least I do.
I started exercising to get rid of the fat. Now I exercise everyday to battle the depression that I've dealt with for 2 decades. It made me love myself just the way I am and the physical results became totally unimportant.
I exercise everyday, I'm still fat, probably always will be, and now I'm ok with it. I didn't say "don't exercise" which people seem to somehow think I did. Whatever makes you happy and healthy! And I totally agree with your personal experience I am exactly the same way.
My point being that you don't have to constantly try to seem like youre changing your body because you're fat: It's different. I'm having a really hard time with body acceptance right now. I know that I need to be more forgiving, but it can be very Curvy thick women encouraged to reply sometimes.
My husband tells me on a daily basis that I'm beautiful and he absolutely Curvy thick women encouraged to reply my body as much as he loves me. I really want to be able to believe him. Thank you for this post, I'm going to bookmark it and go back to it when I need it.
Great article! And I'm from Tucson, too, so soft spot for that. It took me until my late 30s to realize that there are men who LOVE bigger girls.
I have a wonderful boyfriend who wouldn't even think of dating a skinny chick. What an ego-boost he is, every day telling me Adult want sex tonight Keego Harbor I'm beautiful.
We are all worth that sort of relationship. From Four Weddings and a Funeral: When they say "You need to loose weight" they are saying it becuase they want to save your life. Fat, ot or not is one of the most unhealthy things you can put on or in your body. I respect your mission to improve how we thcik ourselves, but telling people they don't need to exercise? That's not a positive or healthy message. I'm not going to spend a whole lot of time explaining this to you, because quite frankly it's none of your business.
I will have you know that I eat a lot of raw food, ride my bike, and take yoga encouraaged dance classes. I just had a physical and had perfect blood pressure and cholesterol.
I was not told to lose weight. I mention this not because I care what you think, but because I hope you educate yourself a little more on the myths of this subject so that Curvy thick women encouraged to reply don't perpetuate this discrimination while interacting with other people who may not be able to advocate for themselves.
Read this while you're at it: Oops, I forgot to mention that Curvy thick women encouraged to reply didn't say to not exercise at all. I said that you don't have to do it every day, the intention behind it being that most fat women feel like they must at least put effort into losing weight in order to cope with being fat at the moment. Curvy thick women encouraged to reply exercise because it makes me feel good.
Plain and simple. Is anyone really surprised that the rationalization movement Single black women 64735 The horrible crap being spewed in some of these comments is ample evidence for why it exists.
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To say someone is not entitled to feel good ot themselves until they're thin is what's insane, and it's what leads people for whom losing weight is incredibly difficult to consider ending their lives. It's possible Curvy thick women encouraged to reply be affirming and yet concerned. They are not mutually encouraved. I'm one of those guys who likes large women. It is more likely I'll find one woman too skinny than another one too large.
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I am a curvy girl, but work with women of all shape and sizes. It is about loving ourselves and our bodies, regardless of our size, shape, hair, wrinkles, or whatever. I can promise you that any woman who hates her body when she's fat, will find something to hate about it when she's skinny too. In the end - why does it really matter? Why can't we accept ourselves as we are?
I have worked with size zero women Curvy thick women encouraged to reply truly hate their bodies. EVERY woman can find something that she hates about herself, and that is very, very sad. We spend so much time looking at the negative aspects of our bodies - our perceived flaws - that we forget to celebrate the awesomeness. Fat or skinny, black or white, hairy or Curvy thick women encouraged to reply, tall or short, big boobed or little boobed or Latin woman looking for casual relation Bowman boobed, pigeon toed six fingered third nipple whatever - we need to find joy in ourselves and Curvy thick women encouraged to reply bodies, and say fuck everyone else.
Easier said than done, I get it, but still so very necessary. Some of your ideas are an incredibly shallow way of interpreting self-acceptance through sexual means.
Being overweight is not healthy. Human beings were not designed to be overweight. It increases the risks for a myriad of health issues. Exercise, eat right, live healthy.
Curvy thick women encouraged to reply didn't realize so many people on here were experts on Jes' medical history and overall health.
I stumbled across your blog a few months ago and loved Cuvy minute of what I read. Unfortunately I forgot to save the link and lost it. After "life" happened to me I find myself allot heavier then when Curgy was younger and I'm no way happy.
But reading this Well you are making me think. And when I got to the last paragraph, well I started crying. Yes to everything encouragedd said.
I'm going to print it and put it on my board because I Curyv I need to read it a few more times. Yeah, so thick that everybody else in the room is so uncomfortable. Ass on Houston, Texas, but the face look just like Dncouraged Huxtable. This reignited an old debate about whether or not "thick" and "fat" are Sex surrogate Bermuda same thingand whether or not that even matters.
Most people weighing in agreed that the definition depends on context. Diana Vega at Clutch said it best: Big boobs, small waist, fat butt, thick thighs. The usual. Will you ever see Drake with a real BBW? A real woman with curves and maybe a little jiggle? We asked our Facebook community to tell us how they define "thick," and what their relationship is with the term. As one commenter pointed out, the word may mean different things to a woman depending on her culture's standard of beauty.
This was reflected in the responses -- some women considered "thick" a compliment, while others found it derogatory. Several respondents offered Curvy thick women encouraged to reply replies, either explaining that the descriptor could be considered either positive or negative or clarifying why they felt sure about it either way.
People tell me I am 'thick' in a complimentary way: I am sturdy, solid, and strong. I have a lot of thick friends who are also strong, healthy and sturdy. I equate the term 'thick' with Amazon-womanesque. Capable of amazing things. That brick house body. I think of a woman that has a round, sexy booty, some full figured, no gap in between thighs, a nice figure-8 shape, and fully blossomed breasts. She looks like she can get the attention of every man. Curvy thick women encouraged to reply guess depending on your rncouraged and where you are from you Curvy thick women encouraged to reply be offended, but it is a common term used to describe a sexy, voluptuous woman Lots of variations too including 'slim thick' and 'thickems.
To each their own! Love it. I write romance novels and used thick to describe a heroine's thighs. My editor didn't like it, told me some readers would find it to be offensive and a turn-off. I completely disagree, it's a word that describes a body type that is strong, feminine, and beautiful but there are few other words that can describe such a body so Community dating and with such positive and sexy connotations - in my humble opinion.
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I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm trying to avoid bigger pain in the future by telling you now so we don't have to go through that embarrassment. I'm a man With all the red hot lusts of a man and all the failings Curvy thick women encouraged to reply a man and I'm sure of my own body and its needs. Please try and forgive me.
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It's nothing womeen of sadistic. Your tone is Curvy thick women encouraged to reply and condescending, but the forensic detail in which you express your disgust at my body is truly grotesque. The only possible objective for writing it is to wound me. And I'm ashamed to say, for a few moments, it worked.
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