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Dumping someone is difficult during the breakup and in certain moments after. You miss having someone to cuddle with. You miss having someone to tell everything to. But ultimately you believe that your ex should not be that someone and that you are both better off apart. You are sad, but you are Just got dumped now looking for fun moving forward. Maybe you already have flr in mind to move forward with.
Bla, bla, bla. Boo hoo.
That is nothing compared to the gut retching devastation of being dumped. In the immediate aftermath of the breakup I seized by crippling despair. I can't sleep and my appetite is lost. I force-feed myself at Just got dumped now looking for fun times and it's so hard to squeeze the chewed boluses down my esophagus. The only tolerable activity is laying in fetal position, watching dumb TV.
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They watch the dumb TV with me until I'm ready to acknowledge the world beyond my couch. They listen. It's not just that they're on my team; they remind me that I noq a team. The wallowing phase is dramatic and pathetic, but it only lasts a day or two.
All consuming self-pity is neither sustainable nor attractive. I resume basal activities -- eating, sleeping, and working -- and enter This is when I shift from debilitating sadness to functioning bitterness. I generalize everything from my previous relationship to all relationships.
How can I trust anyone bot Everyone is selfish and disappointing.
Love is woefully ephemeral. My froyo companions are at different stages of relationships -- texting with a new crush, back with an ex, stuck in a stagnant three-year relationship, etc. Froyo with friends is great therapy. We vow to live together on a commune with adopted babies and puppies if romantic things don't improve by age But I'd rather read in bed with a boyfriend.
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And what's the point of white teeth if no one loves me?! And so I slip into I miss him. I want him back. I stress about our forgone actual plans. We were going to try that new risotto recipe. We have tickets to the Red Sox game next month.
He was going to be my plus one at my cousin's wedding. I stress about our forgone imagined plans. We were going to live in some small New England college town.
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I don't know how to react, but my friends do. He doesn't get to go you stupid details from his day if you aren't his girlfriend". It's really obnoxious.
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My friends are livid. Over and over again, the point is my friends love me and hate him. That's a fundamental property of best friends: I am working hard, exercising, reading, and writing. I paint my kitchen table. I try that risotto recipe niw him. I hand wash my bras. I start to learn Russian or I du,ped one YouTube video of basic phrases.
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Dumpped was only so sad because I was so happy before. So you have to take the good with the bad. Lauren whips out her iPhone and we watch a clip from an episode when Butters gets dumped.
If you don't feel like clicking the link -- I certainly wouldn't -- here's what Butters says: Ohmygod that's so true, Butters! Strong emotions -- both good and bad -- do make you feel alive. That's the human experience and I certainly want to experience the human experience! It's a Friday night and I'm staying in -- not because I'm wallowing, just because I'm tired. I've never seen the TV series Girls so I start with the pilot episode and pour a glass of wine. Look, the girls from Girls are discussing relationship strife over Froyo!
I like the show. I download another episode, pour another glass of wine. Five episodes later it's nearing midnight and I'm nearly out of wine, but I'm really enjoying myself. I remember that I like my own company -- that I lookijg be alone without being lonely.
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I pause to check Gmail. Gilbert is there and we start to video chat. He is on a research trip in Armenia, currently in a hazy, boisterous room. Some kind of tavern. He looks flushed and energized.
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